Why You Don't Like Salespeople

Whenever I have the chance to speak to groups, I always start by asking the following question: “Who loves salespeople?” You might be surprised to find (or maybe you won’t be) that I’m often the only person in the room with my hand raised. This has even happened when I’m speaking to groups composed entirely of salespeople! Why is that the case?

For the most part, people really, really hate to be sold to. Think of the last time someone tried to sell something to you; did you enjoy the experience? Even if you were there specifically to buy something, the answer is probably “No”. There is just something about being sold to that sets off a defensive reaction. We feel that if we’re not careful, we’re going to be taken advantage of. Salespeople, on the whole, have a nasty reputation. That said, you might find what I’m about to say a little offensive: no matter what you do, you are in sales, or at the very least, sales adjacent!

That’s right: no matter what line of work you are in, if you provide a product or a service that other people pay you for, you are either in sales or a sales support role. Bottom line. No arguments to the contrary will be accepted. Selling is the primary function of business. Think about it: if you don’t sell anything, can you really say you’re in business?

So we’ve got a bit of a dilemma: no one, including you, likes to be sold to; at the same time, without sales you have no business. How can you reconcile this quandary? That’s where HERO Selling comes in. You see, the reason no one likes to be sold to and that everyone hates salespeople is simple: many “traditional” selling methods (and the salespeople who still use them) are offensive, brutish and outdated. You know the routine:

                             “What can I do to make sure you drive out of here in this car…TODAY?”
                              “If price weren’t an issue, would you buy…TODAY?”
                              “How many of these widgets would you like to order…TODAY?”

Just hearing the questions makes you cringe, right? You automatically feel hemmed in, backed into a corner and defensive. So why do people still use these tactics? Simply stated, they just don’t know any better. Their managers are so busy pushing for “results” that they never bother to teach them how to treat people.

So what can you do to be different? How can you make sure that you (or the salespeople who work for you or with you) don’t heap this kind of abuse on your prospects and customers? You can become a HERO!  What’s a HERO, you ask? Stay tuned for more…